MDPE.Application:5.6.1 - Let the actual answer end the invitation

Use the answer that was given. With a clear refusal, acknowledge it briefly and stop making the invitation: “Okay” or “Thank you for letting me know” is sufficient. Leave the other person’s space and choices available. Asking for reasons, bargaining for a shorter encounter or waiting beside them for a changed answer prolongs the demand.

An unclear answer gives no basis to start partnered performance. Allow the person to decline and disengage; an unenthusiastic exchange need not be turned into an interrogation. If the person volunteers “maybe later”, retain that information as a possibility. A later encounter still requires a wanted invitation and a fresh answer. The inviter may also choose another activity.

Follow the event’s concrete participation rules. For example, NAWCSA:2.1 prohibits asking the same person again during the same song after a refusal, and says to stop asking them for that evening after several refusals. These are that community’s stated limits. Do not turn a permitted later opportunity into an obligation for either person.